Snag Your Dream Date – How to Get a Date With Whoever You Want
Category: Teen Dreams | Sep 11, 2009 |
When the phrase, “dream date” enters your mind, you may picture a candlelit dinner by the seashore, with a string quartet playing classical love songs in the background, or a picnic under a big oak tree, on a warm afternoon…
But mostly, you picture yourself, doing anything fun with that special person. The one with whom any date, at any day will be perfect. It can be the girl you’ve been fantasizing of since you first saw her at school, or your next-door neighbor with whom you had a conversation with once, in the three years that you have been neighbors.
So what hinders you from asking your dream girl out on a date? Are you shy or intimidated with that person? Or with people you saw her going out with? Well, here’s news for you: you can do it. How? Read on and we’ll tell you how to get a date with whoever you want.
For starters, a little research goes a long way. If you have been dreaming of this special person for a long time, somehow you’ll have an idea of what she wants; her interests, her likes and dislikes, her hobbies, her friends. If you just met this person recently, you can observe her when she’s around other people. Get to know basic details about your object of affection. Just make sure you don’t cross the line from admirer to stalker. If you think you’ve had enough information, keep those in mind until you find the guts to approach her. These bits of information will help you in planning the perfect day or evening for you and your dream date.
Which lead us to our next tip on how to get a date with whoever you want: be confident. Nothing attracts the opposite sex more than confidence. Make a list of your good qualities and read them aloud until you know and believe in them by heart. Practice your best smile in front of the mirror. Observe your posture and what it projects to other people. Doing this frequently eliminates feelings of awkwardness and builds self-confidence. With this air of certainty, you’re sure to catch the eye of the person you want to attract.
When you’ve got your confidence in place, practice what you’re going to say when you ask him or her out. Surely, there are a lot on your mind when you finally come face to face with your dream date, so practicing keeps you from stuttering and blowing your chances in asking that person out. Just don’t make it sound too orchestrated; sounding like a recorded voicemail is definitely not how to get a date with whoever you want. Manage to keep a free-flowing tone while talking.
So with enough practice and confidence, you can take the big step and ask her out. Approach her in proper timing; not when she’s too preoccupied with whatever it is that she’s doing. Be polite in asking if you can have a conversation with her. Just remember to maintain eye contact, relax and smile. Now tell her that you’ve heard of this amazing band coming to town, or a movie she might be interested in watching with you. Assure her that both of you will have an amazing time.
So, those are the ways on how to get a date with whoever you want. If you follow these tips, there’s no reason for that special person to turn you down, unless he or she is involved with someone else, or just too full of herself to go out with you. Just remember that it’s not your loss, and there are other opportunities, or other people who are willing to give you the time of day. Besides, this article is not just about how to get a date with whoever you want, but also how to be the attractive person that others will admire.
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good luck and get well andrew
good luck man
I’ll marry him, cause he is so strong and brave.
hey good luck Andrew. love from a fellow aussy here too.
thats a really touching video. i was expecting it to about a make over but that boy is so strong and i admire him for the way he seems to take things. i really hope all work out for andrew =)
sending my love from australia <3
I'm an 18 y/o girl and my dream car is a Lexus LS 600H
http://www.autosite.com/images/2008/Lexus/LS_600h_L_Staff/400/08_Lexus_LS600h_L_13.jpg
*Drools*
To dream that you are pregnant, symbolizes an aspect of yourself or some aspect of your personal life that is growing and developing. You may not be ready to talk about it or act on it. This may also represent the birth of a new idea, direction, project or goal.
The boys you hate indicates repressed aggression and your fear of confrontations. On the other hand, you may forcing your views and opinions onto others. So the interpretation of your dreams is that you fear confrontation with the boys even though you intend to force your new ideas, direction, project or goal on these boys.
yeah but I don't really consider it cool, it creeps me out especially in the middle of the night when my scream and gasp wake me up because i'm dreaming about dead humans that are non-existent anymore.. nightmares are not really supposed to be fun, unless you're really into dead creatures and reptiles that crawl under the surface of your skin.. lol.
I don't think teens are alone in that.
also check out NLT in Popstar August 2008 issue
I know this might "sound" rather annoying to you at this moment in your life, but, believe me, everything, boyfriends and such, will all fall into place at the right moment. You just need to give it time.
It has no lasting meaning and no significance at all with your waking life. You are fortunate to be able to dream marvelous detailed dreams that can excite, entice, embolden, frighten, arouse, sate, tire, enliven, and virtually every other action to your mind.
I also have these types of dreams and something I began doing years ago was the next night when it was time to sleep again, I would think about that dream and often my mind would pull me right back into that dream.
A disadvantage of these powerful dreams always to me was that I always seemed to be in the middle of one when the alarm went off to get up and I would hit the snooze and try to sit up and start waking up, but the dream had tremendous power to lure me back into it and to sleep.
As you've discovered dreams of this kind also have the wonderful advantage of sometimes leaving you with a happy warm glow when you wake up. Sometimes lasting all day so that you think 'what is it that I'm so happy about?' then realize it is that dream still tucked away in your mind.
Few people I hear these days use the apt and appropriate word "lovely." It is a good word and you must be an educated and well-read person. I hope you have many lovely days to come, based on real life.